May 14th
9:02 PM

Stonewall was a Wedding?

Are we done yet? Do we have to endure another full day of self-congratulation at Obama’s personal endorsement of same-sex marriage? His announcement was heralded with as much praise as last summer’s legalization of gay marriage in New York. And that was, you know, actual legislation.

This is hardly surprising given the fact that marriage equality is designed to distract liberal consciences and give Democrats political cover to gut social services. While the passage of gay marriage enjoyed the support of prominent campaign donors, it was directly preceded by cuts to homeless shelters for queer youth. It’s a campaign season bait-and-switch — winning votes without making real concessions.

Case in point: Bloomberg commended Obama for joining a legacy of “courageous stands that so many Americans have taken over the years on behalf of equal rights for gay and lesbian Americans, stretching back to the Stonewall Inn in Greenwich Village.” This days after slashing youth homeless shelter funding by $7 million, in a city where40% of homeless youth are LGBT.

Looked at from this vantage point, the chief beneficiaries of gay marriage will be Crate & Barrel, not the queer folks with the most desperate needs. There is an obvious disconnect between the desires of politically connected, wealthy gay people and the needs of queer youth, and yet the major gay rights organizations have all rallied around gay marriage as if it will solve the problems of gay people everywhere, regardless of race or class.

Gay marriage proponents feed us two flavors of justification for their crusade. For the romantics they supply fantasy — the notion that legal inclusion brings social justice; for the cynics, they tout the thousand individual rights that a marriage certificate bestows.

These arguments should raise serious red flags for the Jacobin rank-and-file, and indeed, neither holds water. You’d think in the “age of the 99%,” we teeming masses would be able to see that what’s good for the few isn’t good for us all. It’s true that marriage comes with material advantages — healthcare, citizenship, and inheritance chief among them — but therein also lies the problem. Marriage consolidates privilege by creating a legal basis for denying access to those thousand rights; it literally sanctions discrimination. Instead of bestowing rights based on relationship status, the state should guarantee those rights for all people. Instead we attach basic rights to an institution with a 50% failure rate.

The obsession with marriage also sanitizes the history of queer struggle. Stonewall was not a wedding, it was a riot, led by the very queers who are now erased from the public image of gay equality. Drag queens, trans people of color, young queers, and butch dykes fought systematic violence and in Sarah Schulman’s words, “[…] arose to change society, to expand rigid gender roles, to break down confining social mores of privatized families and to defy the consumerism that accompanies monogamy and nuclear family lifestyle in the United States.” That transformative vision has been sidelined by the marriage crowd, who are content to bestow rights only on the deserving few. Are there really members of our society undeserving of health care?

Only the most privileged among us could possibly see the fight for the right to party as a movement for social justice. Proponents tout the implications for healthcare and immigration status while members of our queer and trans communities are denied basic treatment in prison, while they are harassed and ejected by ICE. Loving couples making a public commitment to one another is a beautiful thing, but it is erroneously touted by gay rights groups as the single most pressing justice issue facing queer people. Issues of access to healthcare, education, and housing go unmentioned.

Look no further than Argentina for real leadership in queer politics. While we were busy patting ourselves on the back, the Argentine legislature passed the Gender Identity Law, arguably the most gender-affirming bill in any country, to date. Argentineans can now change their legal genders without having to demonstrate any medical treatment, and the public and private healthcare systems in the country are banned from charging extra for gender-related therapies or procedures. These changes may not have the comforting ring of wedding bells, but they address administrative inequalities that present huge obstacles to trans people in accessing basic services. And it teaches us that by building power for vulnerable communities, legislative reform can be an important part of movements for social justice.

May 9th
3:05 PM
BREAKING: Obama Embraces Marriage Equality
President Obama has come out in support of marriage equality for gay and lesbian people in an interview with ABC News’ Robin Roberts this afternoon:

OBAMA: I have to tell you that over the course of several years as I have talked to friends and family and neighbors when I think about members of my own staff who are in incredibly committed monogamous relationships, same-sex relationships, who are raising kids together, when I think about those soldiers or airmen or marines or sailors who are out there fighting on my behalf and yet feel constrained, even now that Don’t Ask Don’t Tell is gone, because they are not able to commit themselves in a marriage, at a certain point I’ve just concluded that for me personally it is important for me to go ahead and affirm that I think same sex couples should be able to get married.

His endorsement comes less than a week after Vice President Joe Biden embraced the issue during an appearance on Meet The Press and a day after North Carolina banned marriage equality and civil unions in its state constitution.
The president last made news on the freedom to marry 560 days ago, when he told progressive journalists at the White House that he is evolving towards greater acceptance.
Obama’s remarks today bring him full circle to his position in 1996, when he was running for the Illinois state Senate. In response to a questionnaire from Chicago’s Outlines gay newspaper, he proclaimed, “I favor legalizing same-sex marriages, and would fight efforts to prohibit such marriages.”
Source.

BREAKING: Obama Embraces Marriage Equality

President Obama has come out in support of marriage equality for gay and lesbian people in an interview with ABC News’ Robin Roberts this afternoon:

OBAMA: I have to tell you that over the course of several years as I have talked to friends and family and neighbors when I think about members of my own staff who are in incredibly committed monogamous relationships, same-sex relationships, who are raising kids together, when I think about those soldiers or airmen or marines or sailors who are out there fighting on my behalf and yet feel constrained, even now that Don’t Ask Don’t Tell is gone, because they are not able to commit themselves in a marriage, at a certain point I’ve just concluded that for me personally it is important for me to go ahead and affirm that I think same sex couples should be able to get married.

His endorsement comes less than a week after Vice President Joe Biden embraced the issue during an appearance on Meet The Press and a day after North Carolina banned marriage equality and civil unions in its state constitution.

The president last made news on the freedom to marry 560 days ago, when he told progressive journalists at the White House that he is evolving towards greater acceptance.

Obama’s remarks today bring him full circle to his position in 1996, when he was running for the Illinois state Senate. In response to a questionnaire from Chicago’s Outlines gay newspaper, he proclaimed, “I favor legalizing same-sex marriages, and would fight efforts to prohibit such marriages.”

Source.

April 20th
3:44 PM

a message from Anonymous


Seriously? Gaywrites' picture about day of silence reinforces stereotypes about gender binary???? WTF! Does it also reinforce that all women are triangle-shaped and that all people are black?? GET A CLUE!

dear anon here is referring to this post.

i answered gaywrite’s question like this: ”i find graphics like these problematic because they endorse the gender binary, which of course is a complete fallacy.”

my reaction to dear anon’s comment:

so anon, lets try this again.

i said gaywrite’s graphic “endorses the gender binary.”

i did not say that the graphic “reinforces stereotypes about gender binary” [emphasis mine].

for those of you who don’t know, the gender binary is the socially indoctrinated idea that there are only two genders: male and female. that is complete bullshit, or otherwise genderqueer people like myself would not exist.

the graphic depicts only two genders, man and woman — and a reductive portrayal of those genders at that.

so in conclusion, yes, the graphic does subscribe to the gender binary, and in fact, i will concede to you anon, reinforce stereotypical ideas of gender (woman = dress, man = pants).

looking forward to your angry reply back!

side note: i kind of feel a little bad about this reply… oh well.

April 18th
1:50 PM
[Image: A photo of the Tyler Haynes Common’s Pier at the University of Richmond. Taken from the second floor, looking down. In the middle of the photo is a rafter with a rainbow flag hanging vertically on the left side and a black flag with a pink triangle also hanging vertically on the right.]
Every April, the University of Richmond’s queer activist group, the Student Alliance for Sexual Diversity (SASD) co-opts the month of April to celebrate LGBTQ Pride month. This year, we got permission from the University to hang a rainbow and pink triangle flag in the student commons in celebration.

[Image: A photo of the Tyler Haynes Common’s Pier at the University of Richmond. Taken from the second floor, looking down. In the middle of the photo is a rafter with a rainbow flag hanging vertically on the left side and a black flag with a pink triangle also hanging vertically on the right.]

Every April, the University of Richmond’s queer activist group, the Student Alliance for Sexual Diversity (SASD) co-opts the month of April to celebrate LGBTQ Pride month. This year, we got permission from the University to hang a rainbow and pink triangle flag in the student commons in celebration.

April 9th
1:35 PM

[Images: Top image is a chalking on brick of the “all” meme. it reads, “Support ALL the choices!” The first image in the second row is a chalking of the “me gusta” meme that reads, “Reproductive Justice. Me gusta.” The second image in the second row is the “we got a badass over here” meme, that just says “Watch out!” The first image in the third row says “End the War on Women.” The second image in the third row says, “Queers 4 Reproductive Justice.” And the last image of the set says, “Abortion is not shameful.”]

So the anti-choice group, the center for bioethical reform was on campus today, teaming up with our resident anti-choice group, spiders for life. They had their giant, triggering, inaccurate, shaming photos.You can see them here [Trigger warning for abortion, medical waste]. So naturally all the concerned activists on campus formed an ad-hoc coalition to chalk the entire forum where the anti-choice display would be (More pictures coming later). Here are a few of the finest. I thought you all would enjoy. We also stood in the forum all day, talking with people, handing out ribbons for students to show their support for reproductive justice, and of course, FREE CONDOMS.

April 8th
2:45 PM

I knew I was changing when people began to gawk at me again.

My body was blending gender characteristics, and I wasn’t the only one who noticed. I remembered what it was like to walk a gauntlet of strangers who stare — their eyes angry, confused, intrigued. Woman or man: they are outraged that I confuse them. The punishment will follow. The only recognition I can find in their eyes is that I am “other.” I am different. I will always be different. I will never be able to nestle my skin against the comfort of sameness.

— Stone Butch Blues, Leslie Feinberg

April 2nd
7:08 PM

[Image: Four screen caps of a facebook group called “Vixens for Veterans.” The first image shows the timeline cover photo of five presumably white women in black underwear, fishnets, and stilettos. The page has close to 2,500 likes. The second image is the actual time line of the page. On the left hand side is a picture of a white woman in a white top. She has black hair and is making a heart with her fingers. On the right hand side is a list of other pages this page has liked, including one called “Booties for the Troops,” which has been circled in red. The third image is further down the timeline and there is a blond, white woman in the left hand column. She is wearing a blue top over a black bra and has a thick, studded leather choker on. The caption above her asks the viewer whether they would “Like or pass?” on her. The right hand column is a photo of a redheaded, white woman with her back towards the camera. She is wearing white underwear and a white bra. The forth image is a screen shot of the group’s photo section. It is filled with white women taking pictures of themselves in the seductive poses. All of the captions ask the viewer to “Like or pass?” on each woman.]


So I was casually browsing my facebook newsfeed this afternoon when I saw that a guy I went to elementary-high school with had liked this page… Out of curiosity, I clicked it and instantly started a feminist critique of it. Here’s what I have so far:

  • The page showcases female bodies for male consumption; however, women are invited to submit pictures of themselves, so they are consenting to the objectification of their bodies which is consistant with feminist principles
  • Casts men as the societal and sexual actors and women as passive receivers
  • Assumes that veteran = male and vixen = female, upholding heteronormative foundations and traditional ideas of gender at the same time
  • Defines female worth through physical appearance
  • The overwhelming majority of pictures on the site are of white women, all of whom fit into a very narrow definition of “female” or “woman”

Feel free to add more. Charming society we live in, isn’t it?

March 28th
5:52 PM

Poet Adrienne Rich, 82, has died

Adrienne Rich, a pioneering feminist poet and essayist who challenged what she considered to be the myths of the American dream, has died. She was 82.

Read more here.

March 21st
2:44 PM
"There is an expectation that we can talk about sins but no one must be identified as a sinner: newspapers love to describe words or deeds as ‘racially charged’ even in those cases when it would be more honest to say ‘racist’; we agree that there is rampant misogyny, but misogynists are nowhere to be found; homophobia is a problem but no one is homophobic. One cumulative effect of this policed language is that when someone dares to point out something as obvious as white privilege, it is seen as unduly provocative."
February 28th
6:58 PM
"Love is the answer. The question is irrelevant."
—   A wise mentor
February 12th
2:26 PM
"Freedom and democracy:
That’s the word from Washington every day
The Americat’s asleep
With warm milk and cliches
And people are expendable along the way"
—  Ani DiFranco, “Dog Coffee”
February 2nd
1:39 PM

Another day in queer literature...

  • Professor: So we can see the two identities of Karim and his father starting to form parallel with each other through the two sex scenes on each consecutive page. They are literally parallel to each other in the book. You could say that we're erecting identities! Oh... no pun intended...
  • Class: *laughing hysterically*
  • Professor: Okay, maybe pun intended.
January 31st
8:23 PM

We Don’t Need No Education (That Doesn’t Recognize Queer Identities)

Anyone who’s had any recent experience with the American education system knows that most of the time, it’s not an inherently queer-friendly place. From the locker room at gym to the video about where babies come from in health class, it’s a straight straight world out there. Despite our best efforts to make the educational sphere a more inclusive place for young queers — from anti-bullying initiatives to the FAIR Act in California — it remains an aggressively heteronormative space for kids who are very sensitive to the idea that there might be something bad, wrong, or unnatural about them. As major a victory as the FAIR Act was, with its assurance that kids would soon be able to learn about queer role models and historical figures in their public schools, even that may not be the slam dunk that activists had hoped for — California budget cuts mean that the next curriculum revision and textbook purchase have been pushed back to 2015, and individual school districts are being told to interpret the law as best they can without any new funding, and in spite of the fact that their funding overall has decreased by roughly 20% in the last few years.

As long as the majority of students in any academic setting are straight, are heteronormativity and cisnormativity in the classroom inevitable? Not everyone thinks so; Susan Stryker, the director of the LGBT Studies Institute at the University of Arizona, has some thoughts on how queer theory can make academia better when she spoke with the Toronto publication Xtra.

Xtra: Can, or should, queer/trans studies occupy space in the academy the same way that traditional humanities and social science disciplines do?

Susan Stryker: Because there’s homophobia in the world, sometimes it can be difficult to negotiate the academic environment when you’re out and queer, the same way it can be hard to negotiate any workplace, or public space in general. It’s not always a cakewalk. But there is a real recognition that understanding sexuality and sexual diversity is an important part of how you train students to be engaged, thoughtful, participatory members of society. There is not a lot of intellectual debate about whether or not it’s valuable to study LGBT and queer issues in the academy. Even among people who don’t quite get it, it’s recognized as being a legitimate set of questions that has some important things to say to everybody.


Read more here.

January 30th
9:31 PM
"I will NOT stop being angry. I will hold this hatred for injustice so close to my heart it will gather soul samples. I will NOT stop being angry. To do so would be to go quietly into the night. Wading in the water doesn’t stop when the tide draws near. I will be angry and when others join me, we will see a collective diamond come from from the coal of oppression."
—  Anonymous
January 29th
8:56 PM

a friend of mine just shared this on facebook, so i thought i’d share it with you. super cute.